From the moment our babies are born, as parents we understand that it is our responsibility to prepare our children for adulthood. As typically developing children grow and learn about the world we live in, they mature and travel the expected path into adulthood. Parents of children with disabilities watch as their children grow with a very different perspective. Some of these parents will wonder how and even if their children will be able to live independently. It is true that some people with disabilities will always need assistance, but for many others, living independently is a well-planned reality.
It is important to understand that this has not always been the case. When we research the history of how people with disabilities were treated, it is deplorable. While we think of how far we've come as a society, we should never forget the shame of how inhumanely people with disabilities were institutionalized. In the essay The New Disability History: American Perspectives, ed. by Paul K. Longmore and Lauri Umansky, we read about the extent to which there was no inclusion, no rights, and no humane considerations for people with disabilities.
Thankfully, many changes have been made that ensure civil rights to adults with disabilities, requiring equal access to the enjoyment of having a home of their own. Thanks to the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA), there are laws and policies in place to protect all people, regardless of ability. There are many agencies who help provide the necessary resources to support the unique needs of the adult.
In order to prepare for living independently, a young adult needs to understand the importance of self-advocacy. Educators who have extensive knowledge of the unique needs for students with disabilities, provide opportunities to work together with the IEP/TIEP/504 team, to teach the student daily living skills, including practice in self-advocating. Self-advocating, put into the simplest terms, means to be able to take care of oneself, stand up for oneself, to know how to ask for help when needed and whom to ask for help.
The National Technical Assistance Center on Transition has provided a list of the key independent living skills needed for adults with disabilities on their website: "Self-care/independent living skills are skills necessary for management of one’s personal selfcare and daily independent living, including the personal management skills needed to interact with others, daily living skills, financial management skills, and the self-management of healthcare/wellness needs." (NTACT)
There are many options used to begin to prepare for this transition. The first step towards independent living might be an ecological assessment to see what skills will be needed in the variety of environments the young adult will participate in. Once the skill needs are determined, a goal will be developed to target the skill development. For example, a Daily Checklist would be beneficial, to teach self-advocacy by ensuring that all aspects of hygiene, housekeeping, and financial management are completed on a daily basis.
For additional resources please explore these Resource Round-Up pages:
Self-Advocacy | Resource Round-Up for Adults with Disabilities: Postsecondary Education & Employment
https://anaedwardsautismteacher.blogspot.com/2023/07/self-advocacy-resource-round-up-for.html
Self-Advocacy | Resource Round-Up for Adults with Disabilities: Policy Issues, Inclusion, Housing, and Assistance
https://anaedwardsautismteacher.blogspot.com/2023/07/self-advocacy-resource-round-up-for_16.html
Longmore, Paul K., Umansky, Lauri. The New Disability History: American Perspectives. New York: New York University Press, (2001).
Americans with Disabilities Act. U.S. Department of Justice, Civil Rights Division.
https://www.ada.gov/
National Technical Assistance Center on Transition (NTACT). Community Engagement and Independent Living. https://transitionta.org/topics/community/